In the last few weeks or 2 months, I spent filling holes, painting, replacing shower heads, blinds, airators on faucets, cleaning the ceiling fan blades and light fixtures. I also spent it packing. In between doing laundry, cooking and caring for my disabled cat. Did I have any help with all of this? No.
That thing I'm married to thinks he has a single job and makes all the money and doesn't have to do anything. I can ask him. He will say no. Ignores me completely when I say, "pick up your shoes, put your dirty clothing in the hamper, not on the floor, or can you please take out the trash?"
It's gotten so bad I just quit asking.